Will you go back to a cheating spouse?
Married men and women spoke to Godfrey George what they will do to a cheating spouse
Cheating unforgivable – Matt Akin
The mere thought of it makes me want to puke. It is not just irritating, it is dishonest for one to cheat and still want to come back. There are no circumstances that will condone cheating. It’s unforgivable, even before God. The Holy Bible is against it. I don’t want to be in a situation where I will have to contemplate taking back my partner because she is now sorry that she left me for another man.
No going back – Ruth Alimi
I will not go back to a cheating man no matter what. What will even make a man cheat on me? A husband who is married to me? No, I will not stay with him. I will involve the authorities and have the marriage dissolved.
I don’t want to be in such situation – Goddie Dimkpa
I pray I don’t have to be in such a situation. This is because I will not know how I will react or what I will do, and whether or not I will do it.
It’ll be a tough decision – Pat Hart
I will have to seek professional and spiritual advice because it is going to hurt me really badly. But, if I really love him, I will make sure he promises he never does that again. My husband will not cheat on me. I believe that. It will be hard for me to decide whether to stay or leave my marriage.
Unfaithful spouses need prayers – Itekena Chepaka
Partners who cheat on their spouses need help and spiritual interventions. They need help. No woman should put such a hole in their relationship for any reason. The body should be holy unto God and the partners who have agreed to be together. Taking back a cheating spouse will take the help of the Holy Spirit.
Divorce, the only answer – Mabel George
I will not cheat on my husband, so if he decides to desecrate our marital vows and matrimonial bed, we will meet in court. I won’t take back a cheating man.
It’ll be difficult – Miracle Morgan
There is a saying that you don’t know what your reaction to a situation will be until it happens, and that is why I am leaving my options open. I hate cheating. I will never cheat on my spouse, but what if she cheats? How will I react? It will be difficult but one thing love does is it envelopes all wrongs. I really would not know what I would do but the circumstances surrounding the situation will determine my subsequent reaction.
Fear of diseases imminent – Sarah Ere
The problem with taking such men back is that they may want to do it again. Once they see you can forgive cheating, they will try it again. This is why I will not condone it firsthand before someone gives me a disease that I will spend my entire life curing.
Cheating, a deal breaker – Mendy Johnson
For me, cheating is a deal breaker. No one deserves to be in such a shackle all in the name of marriage. God forgives all and I have the spirit of God in me. But, taking back a cheating spouse will require special grace and unction. It will be better if I don’t get to find out on my own, and that she comes and tells me by herself. It is difficult. It can affect my ego forever knowing that someone once slept with my wife.
No woman deserves cheating husband – Mercy Oyateide
No married woman deserves a man who cheats. The hurt alone can send you to the abyss. My husband will not cheat on me. I will not cheat on him. God will not allow me. We are more than conquerors.